The end is here the end is now.
The course is almost it's almost over and historically I end my courses with a song like theirs which
I'll finish right now.
But unfortunately people this does actually bring us to the end of the course.
I'm not going to serenade you in song too much longer because I don't even know how I was I even got
into that it's in one of these habitual behavioural patterns that I've fallen into over the last few
years.
Don't send me hate me for it.
Specially at this stage.
Look this brings us to the end of the course and I have done my absolute best over the last 10 sections
to share everything.
I have no look I think the Course is around about 15 or 16 hours long maybe longer.
No actually because at the time of creating this final closing video mohun and all the questions and
answers.
And if as you're watching this you have in fact just watched through some questions and answers that
could be the case that the Course has anything up to 20 hours plus in length.
What I'm saying is that I've shared with you everything that I have.
Please please please please please please.
Action take action.
Use this stuff today.
You don't have to be the expert.
You don't have to be the guru.
You don't have to have all the answers.
You don't need to have a neild and polished all the techniques all that you actually need to be an effective
and a grounded life coach is just simply the kind of person for other people that you would have them
be for you.
This is their golden rule is the one that has been pointing towards throughout the whole course.
No one wants you to be their experts.
No one wants you to be their guru.
Most of the time those people that come to you actually just want someone who's going to care enough
to listen.
Remember two sections ago I introduced you to the seven master steps dinner people are going to come
to you for life coaching who have made a decision to change in some areas of their life and if they
have taken responsibility for this decision then they're naturally going to be taking action anyway.
It's good to be your main role as a life coach just to simply question and challenge the actions that
they're taken to make sure that they are the most relevant and appropriate actions that they can be
taken.
Are these people committed to the process.
Are you committed to years without commitment on two sides of a relationship is pointless.
I once heard a principle to do with relationships that unless two people bring 50 percent each to the
party this relationship is not going to work.
You know their you know relationship is going to be 50/50.
Well to be honest with you that's absolute garbage because the last two people were bring in 100 percent
for the party then both parties are going to eventually end up missing out on something.
Commitment is absolutely everything.
If you're committed to this process of practicing everything that I've shared with you through the course
you will get better you're not going to get perfect because I'm not perfect but you will get permanently
better and moving forward.
You've ever been before in the past practice doesn't make perfect but it does make you permanently better
and take stock.
Is there anything you're missing.
Is there anything that you don't know.
Because sometimes in life the greatest barriers that we can have between where we're at and where we
want to be just the limitations are on knowledge and our own understanding.
So as we take stock as life coaches we should always be asking ourselves the question what do I need
to know to move forward that I may not currently know.
And if you continue to ask yourself that question then you're already going to be thinking three or
four courses ahead from now I am ditching the junk is a lifetime hobby as I've said none of us are perfect
human beings.
I'm not you're not those that come to you for life coaching they most certainly aren't.
We can all be better as we begin getting good debt ditching our habits.
Understanding what our limiting beliefs are dealing with them ditching them at all points out old times.
It's crucial that we're consistently asking ourselves the question what's true.
What's true in the context of this relationship.
What's true in the context of my limitations.
What's true in the context of what I believe.
What's true in the context of what is actually going on here.
Because we all have thoughts about things people are going to come to you with feelings.
People are going to come to you with opinions and people were going to.
You were beliefs but all of these things are completely irrelevant in line and in view of truth.
So moving forward for the rest of your days become an active student of truth because once you discover
what's true for someone else and you present or reflects back to their mind tend to attend that is going
to be the aha moment that they need it's they're going to then go on to see you as being a phenomenal
life coach.
Giving back isn't about giving people start giving people money giving people our resources.
It's about giving people the most valuable commodity that we possess as human beings which is Time.
Time is the one thing that we're all running to off Quail's.
We can give people our money is easy for us to go we'll get some more money back but if we give someone
else our time we can get that return to us.
So how you invest and spend your time is off crucial and fundamental importance in relation to how the
rest of your life goes on a personal level and also on a professional level as a life coach.
So choose your time and choose those that you spend your time with very very wisely by discerning where
they are and how committed they are to moving forward in the context of their lives.
And you know none of us are there yet.
Are we.
None of us are perfect.
We never are going to be.
We all have room for improvement which means as you continue along the way and through your journey
find as many seats as you possibly can.
Kids who are going to jump in the hole with you and just help you get closer to where it is you need
to be find some people to model and ask some people to mentor you.
You can never have enough in life.
This is something that over the years I have learned to be so unbelievably true.
If you find it hard to find then just keep taking the next best thing.
Don't stop looking for peace because once you've found the key you've just found a friend for life.
Someone who's going to be a friend for you and is going to stick by you through thick and thin.
And incidentally when it comes to life coaching a lot of people are going to come to you and take much
of a coaching relationship so you enter into are going to be very demanding which means that if people
are going to be taken from you it's important that you have that little bit of them as well which means
taking courses like less reading books and having strong balanced relationships is going to be critical
to your own mental and emotional wellbeing.
Moving forward into the future too.
Lastly if you've reached the stage where you're feeling full to the brain when you're ready to go.
I think going be a peak for someone.
Start today.
The world is waiting for people like you to step up to get out there and just get their shit about someone.
Be that person today.
Don't care about someone you love someone.
Give someone your time.
Go share your information your insights and your lifetime learnings with someone.
Because when you start doing this people are going to again see you as significant in their eyes.
And when this happens your mind just attracts a bit of a following and once you go about following all
you are your life coaching diary is going to be full your seminars your workshops are going to be full
and eventually at some point in the future who knows you may be standing here right next to me and we
will be doing a course together.
Hate is not a vision that you could have for a future.
If you feel like you do have something that you could compliments me with right now then by all means
get in touch I'm always open to ideas and suggestions.
But other than this.
This brings us to the end of the close because the end of the course.
I'm keeping my clothes on.
Don't worry about that.
Be unto others the kind of person you would have them be for you.
This is the very essence of what it means to be human and even human is all about being truly alive.
Most people don't know how to be fully alive because they haven't yet found a life coach like you.
So as you go forth into the world to share your lessons with others.
What they're looking for Chris is that the world or those that haven't yet made a decision to move forward
and commit to that decision get yourself there and find people who are quite similar to you because
you already knew how to relate to them.
You have to take you know how your what drives them and your response to the one and gets them going.
Just get started today.
Look I hope you find the course useful insightful helpful inspiring encouraging and all of them of mine
into Ramsey.
I'm just about done.
In fact Matthew is also just about done so I'm going for yet another Starbucks.
If you are hungry for more then I've got a whole range of courses we have touched on any key through
this course.
So I've put together an annual practitioner of course.
That's a practitioner course actually with a guy called Stephen Barnes who is one of the directors of
the Scottish centre of entropy.
We also put together the therapy course which is more about language path turns and how to communicate
with people with good together courses on absolutely everything else in between too.
So your learning doesn't have to end here.
You'll be glad you be glad to know but this is it for me.
I'm hanging up my coat I'm hanging up my boots.
But pens are done and I'm leaving the board behind.
Wouldn't get me a Starbucks and some sandwiches for lunch so I wish you all the very best on into the
future and on with your life coaching and their lives.
My name's Kaner Ramsey.
God bless.
I hope you found this course useful and I'll look forward to hopefully seeing you again in one of my
other programs.